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The Fancy Sessions: 3

The Fancy Sessions: 3

Sasha Tilly 

Sasha laughing in the midst of green foliage in a purple stripey top and glasses.

 

Job Title: Festival Director for New Zealand Fringe Festival (in Wellington)

Pronouns: She/Her

Sasha wears the Sherbert Sparkle Bodysuit by Kindling, the Erin Skirt in Neon Coral by Tuesday, and the Mirer Reverie Earrings in Gold by Republic Road. 

Kia ora Sasha! The NZ Fringe, of which you are the Director is fast upon us! How are you feeling about it?  

Short answer, excited! 

Long answer is truly lucky. We're lucky to live here in NZ, to have strong leadership in this crazy world, and to have the freedoms that we do to move around, to gather together and experience art together. We’re so lucky that so many amazing artists have chosen to share their work with us, it’s truly humbling! This is our biggest Fringe ever, as well as our most Wellington Fringe ever, there’s over 160 events and at least 130 of those are from the Wellington region! I love that I get to play a part by facilitating sharing all of the incredible mahi of our artists with the city.

It’s been an unsettling year for the arts, how have you maintained self care and calm throughout? 

There’s a few key things -  first is that I started following almost exclusively fat fashion babes on Instagram, seeing bodies like mine celebrated in fashion has made a massive difference to how I view myself.

I also started making resin earrings during the lockdown, not for any particular reason other than I wanted more excuses to play with glitter as an adult, but people seem to quite like the result which is cool.

My third thing is treats and trinkets, I periodically will just get myself something small like a new glasses chain or an edible treat, I find it quite difficult to walk away from a caramel slice to be honest. But also I very much enjoy things like long baths, or a walk in nature, treats I can give myself for free. Finally, I feel so privileged that I’ve had a solid job through all this.

Something that has kept my mind at peace, has been donating to arts organisations who’ve been struggling over the last year.  Knowing that I’ve contributed in a small way to helping them stay afloat, and knowing that colleagues and friends will still have some income going forward is really grounding for me.

What are you most looking forward to seeing at the Fringe? 

You’re really going to ask me to narrow it down?! Ooh gosh, okay here are some of my hot picks.

Celestial Nobodies at BATS Theatre for sure. I’ve been following the work of Potentially Playing Productions for a while and I’m excited about this new offering!

Potluck at FatG, I’m a sucker for events that include all your senses and I’ve heard that this one is a veritable feast (literally.) Also The Drawing Marathon at Wellington Drawing School, for me these folks exemplify the kaupapa of Fringe as a festival for anyone and everyone, and from a personal level as well, I’m quite bad at drawing so I’m suuuuuper excited about the opportunity to join a community and work on my skills in with like minded people in a safe space.

What do you find inspiring about living in Wellington? 

I reckon Wellington is the Pascall’s Party Pack of the country, don’t you think? It’s all the best bits together in one city.  I LOVE Wellington, I’m a Wellingtonian through and through, born and bred. I will defend the honour of Wellington as the best city in the world to the end of time. All those “Wellington is dead” articles that were going around recently were clearly written by people who haven’t spent any decent time here. I mean sure, there’s the wind, and the rusting water pipes, and the occasional threat of sewage in the harbour. But it’s my personal opinion those things just weed out the weak, and those of us brave enough to stick around are the cream of the crop. Honestly, you don’t need to travel far to be at a pretty remote beach, or surrounded entirely by nature, but at the same time Wellington has some of the best food, most delicious beers and most incredible live performance in the world. I truly believe that. 

How would you describe your personal style, and who are your influences? 

I don’t know if I would be able to pin it down, it changes daily based on my mood, but also the weather! It’s very important to me to be appropriately dressed for whatever weather we’re experiencing that day, and I always, always have extra layers! It’s why I can’t be one of those girls who carries around a tiny purse; I need a massive bag to hold all my spare jumpers. I have this image in my head that I’m chic and classic in my style. In reality though, I’ve been described many times as eclectic haha, so, that I guess? 

It’s such a cliche, but my mum and my grandmother are my biggest influences for sure. My grandmother was a seamstress who made wedding dresses, and also had a boutique called Dressing Up With Margot. She was a woman who’s relationship with jewellery particularly, but fashion in general too, would definitely be described as the bigger the better, so I learned at a young age to not be afraid of taking risks with what I wear (to varying levels of success!) And my mum is one of the most stylish women I know. Lucky for me we have the same sized feet and we are similar sizes in clothing too so there is a lot of wardrobe swapping that goes on. And by that I mean, I steal things from her wardrobe and “forget” to return them.

What has been your biggest revelation/lesson of the last year? 

My current favourite quote is “Surround yourself with women who would mention your name in a room full of opportunities.” I’ve always had close friends from all the genders, but over the course of the past year I’ve come to rely much more heavily on my gal pals. Growing up I was one of those girls who constantly said “other girls are just so bitchy, I get on much better with guys there’s way less drama, y’know” (I know, I’m sorry, it’s my secret shame) I’ve definitely changed my tune now though! I am very lucky to have the kinds of women in my life who raise me up, a-la Josh Groban, and (I hope) I do the same for them. Supportive female friendships for life!

Where are your favourite spots on Cuba Street?

MFP, but that’s a given.

Oh stop it! 

It's true! Also, Rams for their chilli oil dumplings, The Makers (technically Abel Smith St but basically still Cuba) for locally made and absolutely unique jewellery, Ivy Bar & Cabaret for year round live events and dancing, Qilin Tea House for some of the loveliest staff and the best smoothies.

You can find everything on at The New Zealand Fringe Festival here. 

Photography by Sarah McEvoy 

Ice cream from Duck Island, Cuba Street 

Sasha sits on the tuatara in the cuba street playground. The image is very sunny and colourful.
Sasha stands, smiling on Cuba Street, with the road stretching out behind her. Sasha stands against a ochre wall with a vine growing up it. She has one arm reaching to the sky, and looks fabulous.

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The Fancy Sessions: 2

The Fancy Sessions: 2

Maxwell Apse

Job Title: Composer, Sound Designer and Model

Pronouns: They/Them

Max wears the Mia Dress by Blak, and the Retro Flower Earrings by Denz

It’s been an odd year! What is your overarching feeling on the year, and how are you feeling?

My 2020 was, like a lot of people's, filled with such massive highs and lows. I lost a job I loved, the entire country went into lockdown, and became very scared for my friends and family overseas. There were also some good parts though, small moments of joy and celebration, and that's something I tried to focus on. I'm feeling cautiously optimistic for the year ahead, hoping that things are getting better.

You recently wrote the music for The Glitter Garden, a drag musical for kids. Tell me about that experience, and what it was like to see the work on stage.

At the start of 2020, I was asked if I'd be interested to come on board as composer for a drag musical for children, and I couldn't say yes fast enough. This show was everything I loved about theatre. The spectacle, the music, the message, and being asked to join such a talented team was such a gift. Everyone, and I mean EVERYONE was a master of their field, it could be a little intimidating at times. You'd come in for a production meeting and see these elaborate costumes and sets by people who were such talented, visionary artists that you just had to bring your all to match their energy, it was amazing.

There's something funny about composing for musicals, you spend so long listening to these songs before you put on the show, finding the powerful melodies, obsessing over every lyric, imagining the choreography that could go with every track, that after a while, it becomes hard to tell how people will feel. Sitting in that opening night audience, listening to the kids laughing at our jokes, the parents crying at our sweet moments, seeing the joy people were feeling from our story set on Pride Parade was such a magical night for me, and for all of us. I hope we get to put it back on and show more people!

What art is exciting you at the moment?

Recently, a lot of my friends have gotten more into video games which has been so wonderful for me because I've always loved the medium but felt a little ashamed about it because of the reputation it has, as being this very aggressive, shallow kind of culture.

But over lockdown, a lot of my loved ones became as captivated with the art form as I am, which has renewed my passion for it!

I recently played a game called "Foldable Beasts" which I'd highly recommend to anyone looking for a peaceful game about animals that has some of the most exquisite sound design. One of my dreams is to compose music for a game, so if any game designers are out there, hit me up! I'd love to make your game magically musical!

What do you find inspiring about living in Wellington?

I grew up in Wellington, though I feel I'm constantly finding new communities of artists making amazing work. It's such a great city that, though it struggles with a lack of funding, it still manages to produce some outstanding work. In particular, I want to shout out the Drag scene in Wellington. Every time I see a drag show, I think, this could be a musical, this could be a film, this could be a tv show, all the pieces are here, they just need some money. If someone gave this community $100,000 to make something for an international audience, they'd make $1,000,000 back, easy. They're experts at makeup, costume, dance, comedy. As an artist, you can't help but look at them, then look at your own work and question why you don't know more about all the different aspects in your own skill set, and work to be better. So much aroha for that crew!

How would you describe your personal style, and who are your influences?

If you had asked me 8 years ago, I would've said Pink, my style is everything pink.

If you'd asked me four years ago, I would've said Bisexual, my style is everything Bisexual (Lots of cuffed jeans, cuffed blazers, lots of blues and pinks).

Nowadays, I'd describe my personal style as LOUD! LOUD AND IN YOUR FACE! I'M TRANS, AND PRETTY, AND BISEXUAL AND PINK!

My queerness is a huge influence on my fashion, I remember seeing people living their authentic selves, and how it signalled to me that I could do the same, so I try to pass that feeling on to the people around me.

As for my influences, I have to say it's my friends who inspire me the most. They've always supported me on my journey, and they also happen to be some of the prettiest people ever, so I take a lot of cues from them! (Also, my partner has a very cute dress sense, and since we moved in together, our wardrobes have doubled which has been awesome!)

What has been your biggest revelation/lesson of the last year?

There were so many it's hard to choose! I think one of the biggest ones was the lesson I learned from my "Year Of Pretty". At the beginning of the year, I decided instead of having a resolution, my year would have a theme. A whole year of "Pretty". This gave me the push to try all the things I'd wanted to try but always felt hesitant to. Getting my ears pierced, dyeing my hair, wearing dresses. It was such a wonderful time, and I think that freedom is what really allowed me to question my gender identity. What I think I learned most from my Year Of Pretty, is that there are really no rules. The reason I felt I needed a theme was so I could justify to myself and others these big changes, but now I'm on the other side, the year over, I'm still doing what I was before because you don't need to justify living your authentic self to anyone.

What wardrobe item is your can’t live without?

I've got a really boring answer, but my bike shorts that I wear under my skirt! Thigh chaffing sucks, and it can turn your favorite outfit into something you dread, so I'd highly recommend a good pair to help you feel comfortable and confident!

You can find all of Max's links here. 

Photography by Sarah McEvoy 

Ice cream from Duck Island, Cuba Street 

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The Fancy Sessions: 1

The Fancy Sessions: 1

Lucy McMaster

Experience designer

Pronouns: she/her

Lucy wears the Ngahuia Dress by Tuesday, and the Cathy Pope rose quartz pendant with the rose gold chain

Kia ora Lucy! What has been your proudest moment of the last year?

I think my proudest moment in the last year has been honouring my mental health and where it was at. I had a pretty rough patch last year, and along with lots of people around the globe, was finding it really difficult. I took a bit of time off for burnout and that was probably the best thing I could’ve ever done. I’m very proud of myself for making that decision. Also a project I’ve been working for a very long time went live. It’s called Alcohol Journeys and you can check that out here.

You’re an Experience Designer - tell us about that.

 It’s an interesting job title and it’s a bit of a catch all but mostly what I love to do is at the very beginning stage of a project. The client comes to us and tells us that what they would like to build, and I go out and speak to the core people that will be using the future product to help determine what they should be creating to help improve a product or service or an experience for a person. Sometimes it’s the best part of the job, but the hardest at the same time. It's always difficult to come back to a client and tell them that an assumption that they have made about their core users is incorrect. But that is often the opportunity to do some really cool things. I really enjoy design research as a practice and I’d love to continue to do more of it and to grow my expertise. You have to learn to embrace ambiguity with my role!

Do you have any daily rituals?

In the morning I have a hot cup of tea in bed and put on some upbeat tunes; especially if I’m finding getting out of bed a bit challenging. And in the evening I like to do some some spinal twist stretches and have a bath. I find that really relaxing.

What do you find inspiring about living in Wellington?

I’ve lived in Wellington now for eight years and I love this windy little city. You don’t stay for the weather that’s for sure! I’m constantly inspired by the artists and the creatives, they make the city what it is. Especially after last year and lockdown, as soon as we came out, the whole community had been saving up all their collective energy and all these amazing shows happened. The queer scene is phenomenal in Wellington, and the incredible drag performers here make it so vibrant. There is a drag show on almost every night of the week and I urge you to go out and experience the multitudes of very talented performers - making it happen often on a shoestring budget.

How would you describe your personal style, and who are your influences?

This is such a hard one! I feel as though how I dress depends on what I want for my day. If I have something important happening at work I'll dress formally and feminine. But in my own space I prefer dressing less femme presenting. I’m a sucker for bold warm colours and blues as well as a good pattern. A couple of years ago, after working retail, I looked down at my wardrobe and it was just entirely black. I decided at that point I was banned from buying any black items of clothing!

My influences are largely my mates or people from Instagram. I love finding people who look like me, and be inspired by how they’ve styled something. Ashley Graham, Barbie Ferreira, Lillian Ahenkan (Flex Mami), Paige Mary Grace - an Aussie stylist are all in high rotation for styling and fashion for me. 

What has been your biggest revelation/lesson of the last year?

Life is short. Try to make decisions about what you want from life from a fearless place, not a fearful one.

What are you most looking forward to in 2021?

Getting outdoors, going tramping, and spending a lot of time out in nature. And having a bit of a reset in general.

What are you currently reading/watching/listening to?

I'm reading The Starless Sea by Erin Morgenstern. Why we sleep by Matthew Walker The F*ck It diet by Caroline Dooner. I’ve been so excited for the extra episodes of Euphoria to come out and I absolutely loved them along with the original series. The Mandalorian. And embarrassingly - Bridgerton. I can’t stop listening to Paiges’ debut album; she is an amazing young Kiwi musician go to check her out. SZA, The Beth’s, Little Simz, Kali Uchis, Thundercat, Mahalia, BLKCITY (another Aotearoa original).

Photography by Sarah McEvoy 

Ice cream from Duck Island, Cuba Street 

 

Lucy sits on the tuatara in the children's playground by the bucket fountain. She is smiley, and has an ice cream in her hand.

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The Fancy Sessions!

The Fancy Sessions!

Kia ora! 

I am so so so stoked to share with you all a new monthly project Madame Fancy Pants will be embarking on. 

Every month we'll be bringing together folks from Wellington we admire, and a really cool photographer to see how they style Madame Fancy Pants wares, and ask them some questions about their lives, influences, projects, and fashion. 

These people will be from all areas, humanities, arts, theatre, technology, and will all embody what makes this little city so cool. 

I can't wait to see who we meet, and what we make along the way. 

To kick this off, we got together THREE phenomenal models, Sasha, Maxwell, and Lucy, and photographer extraordinaire Sarah McEvoy (@sarahlikesphotos) to have a sunny day together on Cuba Street.

I will be posting the interviews with each of these amazing people in the coming weeks, but for now, here are some of the sunny photos we took that day. 

As part of the photoshoot, we visited the fantastic Duck Island on Cuba Street for an ice cream, where I can highly recommend the Orange Blossom Choc Chip. (Working on this street has it's food perks!)

If you love the items featured - head here for the goodies

We'll be posting the first interview with the gorgeous Lucy McMaster next Thursday, so keep your eyes peeled!

Aimee xoxoxo 

Maxwell, Lucy and Sasha all walking across Cuba Street. Maxwell is wearing a floral, floaty maxi, Sasha is wearing a purple stripey top, and Lucy is wearing a floor length white dress with small black leopard print spots on it.

 

Maxwell, Sasha and Lucy laughing against a backdrop of ivy.
Maxwell, Lucy and Sasha in the same outfits as previous, outside Duck Island Ice Cream shop.
Lucy, Maxwell and Sasha stood and sat at different levels of the Bucket Fountain rocks.

 

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FREE Anxietea!

FREE Anxietea!

Calling out to fellow tea lovers!

During the month of November, purchase an Anxietea Flask and get a FREE Anxietea teaser pouch!

Simply pop a flask and the teaser pouch in your cart and the discount will apply automatically.

Enjoy!

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Join the Greytown MFP team!

Join the Greytown MFP team!

We are looking for a great new team member for our new Greytown store - pop Claire an email with a cover letter and your CV if you think you fit the MFP bill!

xMFP

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Xmas shipping dates!

Xmas shipping dates!

Eeeek! So this is happening!⁠
Nz Post have released their shipping cut off dates - They all seem pretty far away BUT! As a receiver of MANY parcels - I totally recommend (if you are sending overseas!) getting them off as soon as you possibly can.⁠
There are going to be so many more parcels being sent this year with folks not visiting loved ones - the postal folks are going to be UNDER THE PUMP!⁠
So if you are thinking of posting a parcel or 2 overseas - then please do consider getting it wrapped and off to its Christmas destination soon.⁠
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LOVE YOUR LOCAL!

Wellingtonians!

Get down and love your local - check our Cuba Street's (unofficial!) mayor Roger of Fidel's Cafe show you around our town.

Keep an eye out for our Aimee and the store!

Shop local y'all! OR visit us on your next NZ break!

 

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